A powerful force in the life of your performing will be your level of mental toughness. This toughness comes from responding to negative messages (thoughts & emotions) in an appropriate way. Being a mentally tough performer means that under the pressure of competition you can maintain a present focus and continue to think constructively, non-defensively, positively, and realistically–and do it with calm clarity.
Make no mistake—mental toughness is not born, but learned like any other skill. If you don’t have it, it simply means you haven’t learned it YET. Anyone can learn to get tougher—to become more relaxed and calm—at any stage in his or her life or performing.
You may have the talent of a Pavarotti, a Yo Yo Ma, a Lang Lang, a Joshua Bell, or a Rampal, but if you don’t have toughness, you may never reach your full potential. Only through toughness can you discover your real limits.
You KNOW how many talented performers there are out there. The limiting factor for most performers is not TALENT, but mental TOUGHNESS!!
An ideal performance state (IPS) exists for every singer. It is simply the optimal state of physiological and psychological arousal or energy for performing at your peak. Arousal is reflected in heart rate, muscle tension, blood pressure, and other measures. IPS is accompanied by a distinctive pattern of feelings and emotions. You are most likely to experience your IPS and perform at your peak when you feel:
- Relaxed and calm
- Energized with position emotion
- Focused and alert
- Automatic and instinctive
- Ready for fun and enjoyment
Those of you who have read anything about FLOW, might recognize these criteria.
Finally, remember that mental toughness is all about total engagement—mental, emotional, and physical—being totally immersed in what you are doing!
What we think and visualize, how we act, when and what we eat, the quantity and quality of our sleep and rest can ALL have profound effects on our emotional state at any given time.
Mental toughness calls for learning when, how, and what to think and visualize before, during, and after competition to get the desired effect emotionally.
Being tough mentally means that you have acquired skills in thinking, believing, and visualization that enable you to:
- Readily access empowering emotions during competition
- Quickly change from a negative emotional state to a positive one
- Cope emotionally with mistakes and failures
- Trigger an Ideal Performance State
- Cope with crisis and adversity
Being mentally tough is what every performer needs in order to get out of their performances what they put into them in practice. If you struggle with performing as well as you practice or you get anxious to the point that it interferes with your performing, you will want to learn the mental strategies it takes to stay calm and relaxed in the face of fear, worry, and anxiety. Next time we will discuss Strategies for Becoming Mentally Tough.
You know that I would always like to hear about your experiences as a performer—what helps and what hinders your ability to stay calm and relaxed both prior to and during performance. Please leave me a comment.
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